在27岁的时候，我年轻，我是非常面向的，忙碌，但我已经知道了一段时间，我想在我的生活中腾出时间。For a long time, I really only believed this in theory, but over the last few years, I have had a few boyfriends, random love interests, the guys you go out with who string you along and it doesn’t go anywhere, and even a couple of guys I have been guilty of stringing along without it going anywhere…
Before joining Evan’s Love U program, I had actually already been receiving a lot of his newsletters for a while and putting them into practice the best I could (like actually making time to date people, and putting in the required energy / minimal effort to have results ;). It took me a while, but I had already begun taking his advice seriously about knowing when to walk and when to give men a second chance, to look for things in potential future-boyfriends that would make me feel good and fulfilled in the long-run rather than looking for someone who was just like me, and of course, to keep dating, no matter all those disappointing dates!
然而，有了爱情，我发现，通过在练习他的建议时直接对一些更具体的问题进行了直接回答我的一些问题，以及其他女性经历同样的女性的支持，真的很有帮助，特别是在您的头脑中处理负面，悲观的声音，如何应对“造教师”和对节奏的担忧。As well, I found “Why He Disappeared” was particularly insightful with very useful, practical strategies to handle uncomfortable moments, learning to pick your battles when there’s conflict, and learning to choose to not act on the fear-based impulse to try to control situations by calling or emailing or making plans first, etc.
I’m happy to say that I’ve recently celebrated my two-year anniversary with my husband (6.5 years together). My family likes him and he likes them… he just seems to fit right in! We have a lovely intellectual and emotional connection that I make a point to openly appreciate as often as I can, which only brings out more of what I love!
我想和你分享为什么事情发生得很好，所以你可以拥有同样的快乐和履行的关系：我分享了他的生命和喜悦和笑声，他忘记了他和我在一起的所有担忧。金宝博电子竞技他是一个关怀，周到，聪明的人和非常敏锐的人 - 我也让它分享我的观察点并记住他的喜欢和不喜欢。
我们对彼此非常诚实，而且没有判断，感到羞怯的灵感。我知道他过去的女朋友，女朋友等的所有细节，以及对其所有的反应是真正的娱乐和好奇心。他很惊讶，我没有评判或嫉妒，我真的接受了他，并感谢所有塑造了他今天的精彩，周到，犯下的性精明男人的所有经历。
我们彼此相爱，并尝试在职业生涯和潜在的举动中保持更大的画面和更大的目标，但我的老公已经通过它的全部和相信我的所有人并相信为什么我嫁给了他。
更加了解，“不是哭泣的狼”，关于小问题，并接受他是谁，以及坚持我的价值观是所有真正让我与他以前的女朋友分开的东西，让他感到非常特别的亲密亲密他以前没有感受到过。
These are all aspects of myself that I have worked on a lot with the help of the advice of people like Evan. The best part is how these changes in my attitude and world view truly feel part of my best self – I mean them! This is growth and self-improvement and it feels great to just see how far I’ve come.
So, take all Evan’s advice to heart and resist the urge to become defensive – that is just your scared ego not allowing you the chance to be truly fulfilled in love and you deserve better – the world will also benefit more generally when the better part of yourself really shines!
尼加拉
