After reading your blog, listening to your audios, reading your books & watching your videos, it finally dawned on me! I realized that in order to find the “right” person, I had to be the “right” person and what that meant was that I had to change all my long-held beliefs about what love was supposed to look & feel like. All the chemistry and common interests were getting me nowhere near my goal of finding “the one”.
To my knowledge, I had roughly 1400 matches on eHarmony. Can you imagine? It felt like a part time job! Sometimes after repeated disappointments I would log on just to clear the inbox because I was just tired of the same results.
但我跟着你的建议，我做了一笔交易：我会阅读所有电子邮件，不允许自己说“是的......”。不再在我的呼吸下发出“很容易，你要说evan”不再“是的，是的......他只是不明白*我要做什么”......没有更多的“如果它意味着它会，我只做，祈祷，希望命运会照顾它。”
I started following your advice like adhering to a recipe for the perfect crème brûlée…And I’m happy to report that 6 months ago I married my best friend. Thanks to your advice, I found the man of my dreams & we are living happily ever after. Ladies: if you don’t believe Evan, find me on Facebook. I’m the one with the big smile on my face and my handsome prince by my side.
谢谢埃文！
P.S. Here are some photos of my husband and I, our wedding with my 13 year old daughter (who had to wait 12 years for mom to remarry) and my saint of a husband who skipped watching Saturday College Game Day to help paint and remodel my daughter’s bedroom (& still loving me all the while). He was worth the wait and I wish this for all your clients.
Much love!
Naysha S.
